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When you meet someone for the first time and you are attracted to that person, there are three factors to consider: energy, looks and instinct. I often hear from older single women that they choose a partner on a rational and practical base. When asking about those rational things, the three mentioned elements are always coming back. So much for being rational.
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Your ‘feelings’ based on attraction are not rational, but based on instinct. Women and men also subconsciously judge for fertility and reproduction. As an example I take this young woman who was always very happy to have a chat with me in an organic farm shop. She always looked from my eyes to my crotch and back again. And that repeated itself a number of times. She was not as subtle about it as other women. Just like men look at the head, the breasts, the hips and the crotch. In the end, we all have the urge to reproduce and or make love.
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Your gut feeling has also nothing to do with attraction, more about the person you want to stay clear off, because it’s connected to your instinct and senses danger. Your heart, on the other hand, can start beating faster if you are attracted to someone. Even if you think you are being warned, in most cases you are not. That’s why so many people today are rational when it comes to dating. Love is not in ratio, it comes from your heart.
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In the beginning there are lots of things which both parties will accept from eachother. The infatuation is clouding your judgement and your instinct rules… So when this infatuation period evolves, you are slowly going to measure the person you’re with up. Things like intelligence, humor, charisma and so on are evaluated in the second fase of finding or having the right partner. And now the energy steps in of determining if you have made a long or short term choice.
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There are three major energies to be considered e.g.: the energy of the mind, of the heart and sexual energy. In my personal studies I discovered after spoken to many single and married people, that a short term relationship has just one or two energies that match. When it’s just one it’s always just sexual energy. When there are two, it’s always missing the sexual energy. If sexual energy is one of the two energies that match, chances are that it’s a long term relationship. In the perfect relationship all energies match.
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What can you do with this information. Well, it’s just for you to know, but don’t stop living and loving and keep score. If it doesn’t work out or you feel there’s something missing in your current relationship, you don’t have to blame anyone, because if the energy isn’t there, it just isn’t. This doesn’t prevent you from a heartache either, but helps you to recover faster, because you know now. Some things are just inevitable and it always helps you grow.
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Sending you love, light and beautiful, healing, Source energy…🥰💫✨💖
💫 𝑳𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒅 💫